For Episode 101 we thought giving a brief “101” lecture on Progressive Swinging felt right.
So, we reintroduce and define what we mean by Progressive Swinging, and give you the very basics; what you need, what to expect, and how to proceed. We've approached the basics before, communication, introductions, prep work, but this time with give it to you with a different goal in mind, how to enter into Progressive Swinging.
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You carefully explain the long steps of communication, sharing fantasy, preparing ground rules in a very good manner. But do people just dive or stumble in as well? Attending parties where flirting (and maybe booze) gets out of hand, ending in a swap situation – and finding out it was OK – and going on from there?
I’ve noticed that you’ve made the term “progressive swinging” which is a questionable term found in the difference between “polyamory” and “swinging”. Now in addition to progressive swinging, does it involve forming long-term emotional/romantic/sexual relationship, as well as deep friendships with other swingers, but not to forming practical relationships with them?
For me, the key to progressive swinging is specifically the openness, safety, and community. How you choose to make your relationships doesn’t suddenly make you “not” a swinger.