The Multiamory crew have often discussed strategies for finding dating partners through online dating. But what about finding partners in real-life? Can you find poly-friendly partners out at a bar? How do you flirt while also conveying important information about your lifestyle?

We give you a collection of our favorite tips for flirting while out and about, including the best ways to make connections at poly meetups and making agreements for wingman/wingwoman-ing for your partner. And exclusive for our Multiamory podcast listeners, we explain our individually patented flirting techniques: Jase's Conversational Gambit, Emily's Direct Declaration, and Dedeker Throws the Book at You.



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Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

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