Like so many things in our lives, non-monogamous activity can be cyclical. There are times when we're out there dating a ton and boning all the sexy people, when we have the time and energy to enjoy the sexy connections we have made and will make.

Yet there are other times when we need to pull back for a myriad of reasons, when time or energy are at a premium, and we need to do less. It can be easy to feel discouraged during these times, if it's not how you usually operate, but it's important to take the time to take care of yourself when you need it. That way when the cycle comes 'round again, you'll be more likely to be ready to jump back on the express train to sexytown.

On this episode of On The Wet Coast, we're discussing Pulling Back.


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Music in this episode: Theme music – A Naked Gun: Bank Assault by Francesco D'Andrea

Episode music – Puzzle Pieces by Lee Rosevere

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